As we all know, there is only one chance to make a good first impression. Even though you can have a horrible first date and still manage to build a relationship, it is always in your best interest to charm her on the first date. If you are not sure how you can impress her on the first date, here are 10 best tips that will charm just about any girl.

Have Good Phone Etiquette

There is nothing that will be a buzz killer than you constantly fidgeting with your phone, answering messages, playing games or scrolling Instagram. To avoid making her uncomfortable turn your phone on vibrate and put it in your pocket so you don’t keep using it. There is nothing more annoying than your phone constantly going off while she is trying to talk to you.

Offer To Pick Her Up

Even though she is most likely going to decline this offer if you never met before in person, you should still offer to pick her up just because it is thoughtful to do so. But if you want to be really charming, offer to pay for her uber or taxi.

Be Your True Best Self

Feeling nervous on a first date is completely normal but you should never show that you are nervous and most definitely don’t try to be someone you are not. Never try to pretend to be someone you are not just for the sake of her liking you more. Don’t try super hard to impress her and create a fake persona because that will only cause issues down the road or see right through you at that moment and create an uncomfortable situation for both of you.

Always Open Doors

Even though there is nothing more charming than being a gentleman and opening her doors and pulling up her chair, there will be some ladies who will not appreciate it as much as they are very much independent. That is why you always need to make sure that you gauge your audience before going all in.

Bring Her Flowers

Yes, bringing flowers on the first date is the most cliche thing you can do, especially when you live in a place such as Australia. But bringing flowers on the first day will leave a great first impression and it will make her feel giddy. That is why you should always look for the best flowers in Sydney and surprise your date. Choose romantic flowers such as roses, tulips, peonies etc…

Be Neat and Dress Fine

Although looks aren’t everything there is nothing that will put a bigger smile on a ladies face than seeing someone they like all dressed up and handsome. Do your best to dress like a gentleman while making sure that you are not overdressing. Make sure that you are well-groomed and that you smell nice. It will not only make her more attracted to you but she will feel special because you dressed up for her, especially if you don’t normally dress up.

Don’t Be A Bore

One of the most important things that can and should do on the first date to charm her is to make sure that you aren’t super boring. Don’t ask too many questions, talk about yourself constantly or just sit quietly. Make sure that you are keeping the conversation going and natural. You aren’t interviewing her for a job, you are having fun so you shouldn’t be stuck up. Try to ask engaging questions that you can actually talk about. Always try to avoid the controversial topics of the first day as it can cause some bad reactions.

Do Your Best To Avoid Negativity at All Costs

As we have already mentioned, it is best that you stay off controversial topics such as political views and maybe talk about topics like what is the best type of pasta if you want to have debates. Even though you should give your honest opinion, try to stray away from those negative comments.

Arrive Early To The Location

You shouldn’t arrive thirty minutes early because you don’t want to sit around for that long but you should arrive at least ten minutes before it begins. That way if she shows up a bit really she doesn’t have to stand there alone.

Ask Her Questions About Her

The best way to get to know someone on the first day is to ask them questions about themselves. But instead of just letting down an avalanche of questions upon them tell them something that you like and then ask do they like that as well. It is a great way to charm her by paying attention but also getting to know each other.

Even though sometimes charming a girl on the first thing comes really naturally it is not the easier thing in the world. If you don’t charm her and you miss that opportunity you will regret it later. You have to know that going on a first date isn’t the best time to be gloating about how great you are. Have fun, ask her fun questions and get to know each other. There is nothing that she will appreciate other than you being genuine. Make sure that you are prepared and that you have a backup plan if something starts going south. Be confident and have fun!

Jack Kewell is writer, science editor, naturalist, entrepreneur. He is focused on writing and illustrating books. Also, he is a regular contributor on Mountaintechblog

Joyce Laroche